The Work of Pleasure

This is the third year I’ve travelled to the Big Island of Hawaii to facilitate a woman’s retreat. As I write this I’m sitting in a sports bra with some sweaty shorts on, underneath a big fan. We’re on “time off” this afternoon. Some of the women have gone to the beach to swim,  one is napping in a hammock …

Re-remembering a revelation

This is one of those revelations you had when you were 16 and it changed your outlook on life completely but then you forgot it and then re-remembered it in your mid-30’s, so here’s hoping it sticks this time. Drum roll please. The universe is not out to get me. It actually wants me to be happy and for life …