An Ode to Dads

One of my best friends told me this incredible story. It is horribly embarrassing so I have taken out any identifiers. It is all true.

All the single ladies

My best friend came over this afternoon. She started crying. She is 35. She is beautiful. She is witty and adventurous and has a super hot body. She has a self-created career. She loves bike rides and tropical vacations and reggae music and nude sunbathing. She is single.

A Horribly Beautiful Love Story

I lay on my bed and stare out the window sometimes. From my view I get the perfect shot of two pigeons sitting on the roof across from me; preening each other for hours. I assume they are lovers, the way they’re so attentive and as the weeks go on the story in my mind grows. His name is Bryan and she’s Debby and …

I Got Nothing. Does that Mean I Got Everything?

Every few days I sit down and write a bit until the pen trails off and…I’ve come up with a shit ton of great starts but for some reason coming to a conclusion with any of these essays seems ridiculous. “How dare I assume I know what is right?” “Who am I to have such a strong opinion?” And another …

My Mother's Final Gift

I walked into her room and saw her folding blankets again. In my moms decline into brain cancer what was left of her mind- loved to fold things. The nurses said all the dying woman did it. It’s what they did with their lives, folding laundry, keeping busy hands, so it makes sense it would bring them comfort in their …

My Mother’s Final Gift

I walked into her room and saw her folding blankets again. In my moms decline into brain cancer what was left of her mind- loved to fold things. The nurses said all the dying woman did it. It’s what they did with their lives, folding laundry, keeping busy hands, so it makes sense it would bring them comfort in their …

Is She Obsessed or Open Hearted?

Advice Column Question: I am obsessed with my friend. I know obsess has a negative connotation, but I can’t think of a different one. I’m just endlessly fascinated with this friend and feel grateful and encouraged and happier about existing when I am with them. I’m think I am overwhelming them with my love and friendship and that makes me …

Advice: Can You Imagine Getting More Than You Think You Deserve?

Question: I don’t even really know where to begin. I’m having a really hard time letting go of an ex-boyfriend. I feel so broken. When my ex and I started “dating”, we sort of “decided” on each other really quickly, fell really hard and fast, and then tried to scramble and put all the the pieces together.  We told ourselves …

Advice: My hubby is giving me the shits.

                I never even thought about posting live video. Can you fucking believe that.  So, here’s my first. One take. I’m a genius. The question was: I’ve been having dreams about leaving my husband. Should I? Here is my answer: