Advice- The Worst Time Of My Life

This questioner didn’t call it The Worst Time Of Her Life but I identified it as such, only because I remember mine so well. So I tell you all about the worst time in my life and then I tell her what to expect next… ps. I think this may be the perfect blend of the best advice I’ve ever …

Advice: Don’t feel sad, bad or mad

Question: Why do I hate myself for feeling sad? Every time that something happens in my life to upset me I immediately tell myself why I’m a bad person for feeling sorry for myself. I’m over reacting, there are people who have it worse who are more together, how can I even presume to know what real sadness is? So …

Advice- The Great Self Love Reset

This was the first question ever asked of me. It is also the hardest. I have been putting off finding an answer. Here is me doing my best on a topic close to home. How do we love ourselves in spite of ourselves? CLICK on the link below. the-great-self-love-reset   “You can be the most beautiful person in the world …

Dear baby in my belly (part 1)

I suppose I should preface this essay by saying…I am happy to be pregnant and I am enjoying the ride. It was not alway so and this is an example of the feelings of transition I went through on my way to motherhood. I write from the experience of what was hard once it becomes light. I do this so folks who also find it hard can know that they are not alone. Right now the truth is that although I recently peed the bed, lost my ankles completely and developed teenage acne, ironically in this last month of gestation I have blossomed. There is something about giving up completely that is incredibly freeing…oh I also pulled my vagina muscle too…read on!

Don’t Buy Another Online Program- a manifesto for enlightenment

I was feeling really down yesterday.
“I don’t make enough money.”
“I work too hard.”
“I’m not appreciated for what I do.”
“No one cares.”
“I should just quit.”
I was throwing myself a real fucking pity party, and of course I found myself squished down the rabbit hole of the internet and emerged out onto a website that blew me away…

Don't Buy Another Online Program- a manifesto for enlightenment

I was feeling really down yesterday.
“I don’t make enough money.”
“I work too hard.”
“I’m not appreciated for what I do.”
“No one cares.”
“I should just quit.”
I was throwing myself a real fucking pity party, and of course I found myself squished down the rabbit hole of the internet and emerged out onto a website that blew me away…

Surprise! It’s all okay.

Sometimes after all the shit rolls down the hill and I think it’s all too much to bear and I have finally ruined everything for good-I remember to try to breathe or I crawl into a ball and close my eyes. All that is left inside me is goodness and light and I cannot deny the kindness of the universe. …

Surprise! It's all okay.

Sometimes after all the shit rolls down the hill and I think it’s all too much to bear and I have finally ruined everything for good-I remember to try to breathe or I crawl into a ball and close my eyes. All that is left inside me is goodness and light and I cannot deny the kindness of the universe. …