A Letter From All The Women To All The Men

To All The Men, The first thing we want to say to all the men out there is that we love you. We’re not blaming you or attacking you. We have the best men surrounding us, brothers, best friends, men who have fathered our children and taught us more than anyone else has. We feel safe and respected and taken …

Crying is Radical

I feel a lot all the time but mostly I feel vulnerable and soft and these are not comfortable feelings for me to share publically. I can feel anger, righteous indignation, power, fear: but feeling vulnerable and crying (in front of people)…that’s my edge. And I’m all about walking the tightrope so the series about feelings begins here, on the …

White People Can Change the World

Yes. That title was click bait. But it’s true. I’ve had nothing to say this past week. There’s nothing a privileged white person can say right now. It hasn’t been my time to speak. I’ve been listening, learning, copying down messages that make me uncomfortable in my seat of power and if you are curious, I’m pasting them below. I’m …

Extreme Love / Extreme Pain

The feeling of extreme love, love so chest cracking terrifying in its wildness is the exact same feeling as extreme pain. I just received some upsetting news and the shock and expansion of my heart was the same sensation I get when I watch my boys sleep. Out of control with love. And terror. That we don’t know anything; and …

People are Complicated

This morning, I was sitting in my car in a rainstorm checking the ole fb and this woman popped up. A hard working, not yet uber famous, but probably making a decent living musician. An inspiration to many of us out there busting it. Play it loud with headphones on. And then I found out she was a Trump supporter; active …

BEING SEEN (the good and the ugly)

I had the best thing happen this week. I got into my car after performing Motherload, turned on the radio and heard myself interviewing someone. What? WHAT! It wasn’t an ego trip. It just felt fucking rad to be out there in 2 places at once doing what I love the most. Because when I’m on stage or on the …

The Truth Behind Being a Professional Artist.

I’ve been paying the bills my making art for over a decade now. When I was a few years before turning thirty I thought I just can’t serve another table so I took the plunge into trying to pay the bills by theatre-making only, and although every month is tight, it’s working. But I wanted to tell you honestly, why. …

My staycation (told in gifs and pics) is gonna make you so jelly.

I hit the wall. This may come as a surprise to some, as I have 2 kids and 3 jobs, that it took so long… But a week ago I hit it. . I shut my bedroom door and I sat on the corner my bed. while my boys were distracting me…trying to decide what to do.   And I heard …

Women. Women. Rah! Rah! Rah!

Every night after I leave my radio show on the drive home I think “that was seriously the best interview yet!” I don’t understand how they just keep getting better and better?! The show has gotten so much great feedback I’m now airing at 1pm PST and 9pm PST and dear lord, one day soon there is a podcast coming …