ADVICE: I Love My BF but I Don’t Want To Have Sex With My BF.

*This post is full of dirty words and descriptions of my sex life so family…proceed with caution. QUESTION: I love my boyfriend. He’s the kind and sexy and playful and powerful, the best boyfriend I’ve ever had in fact- but sometimes I don’t want to have sex with him, like really don’t- at all. I don’t want to break up …

Advice: Intuition vs Fear (is this guy stalking me or am I just a prude?)

Hi Emelia, I have been “hanging out” with a male coworker (I’m female) for about a year. It started with me just wanted to learn guitar but he made it clear early on that he likes me as more than a friend; I didn’t feel the same and told him so but he didn’t seem to get the hint. Me being confrontation-phobic and not …

Advice: How do I leave?

Dear Emelia, I am a musician living in Bali as a single mother making a living performing the traditional music of the country. I have totally immersed myself in the culture here, just me and my daughter, living off the sweat of my gigs. I have a great nanny and have set our life up in a very healthy way. I am …

Ask Emelia: 2 women have the same problem…

(#1) Hi Emelia, I have felt totally unfulfilled for the past two years. I fell in love with my fiance in January 2013 and I saw parts of him that seemed overbearing, smothering at first and I wanted to run in the opposite direction, screaming “danger, danger!”… And then in April that same year I found out I was 5 weeks pregnant. …

Should I tell the truth?

QUESTION: About six months ago my husband left. We had battled it out for almost a year before he finally left; the stress of building a house, running a business, working away from each other in the winter & trying to get pregnant was too much. I had threatened to “quit us” a couple of times in the months preceding …

Advice: Coming Out Late? Where do I begin?

Advice: How Do I Come Out? Best question ever! Listen up. I don’t post the transcripts to read cause it’s only 3.5 minutes and I put it to music. Ya just gotta hear this live. It’s art yo.

Advice: Should I Ask Him To Marry Me?

QUESTION: I am partners with an amazing human being who I want to ask to marry me. It doesn’t phase me to go against the grain to ask a man to marry me (well maybe a little) but more than that I am not a 100% sure if this is me being crazy or wise. Not because I am putting …

Advice: I'm terrified to write, how do I begin?

Question: I’m scared to write. No, I am debilitated when it comes to writing. People tell me I can write, that I’m a writer, bla fucking bla, but I can’t fucking write. I have my first paid freelancing gig and i’m distracting myself by binge dating.   Something has to happen because right now I’m sitting in a corner office with …