ADVICE: I Love My BF but I Don’t Want To Have Sex With My BF.

*This post is full of dirty words and descriptions of my sex life so family…proceed with caution. QUESTION: I love my boyfriend. He’s the kind and sexy and playful and powerful, the best boyfriend I’ve ever had in fact- but sometimes I don’t want to have sex with him, like really don’t- at all. I don’t want to break up …

Advice: How Do I Tell My Family I Hate Christmas?

This question a woman sent me brought me out of “Advice Column” retirement it’s so easy to answer, and deeply relatable. Under 4 min. Filmed while breastfeeding… …and when I google imaged “I hate Christmas” for an image to include in this post, a picture I TOOK OF MY SON was the first to show up. So…let’s just say we …

Advice: How do I hate Christmas less?

Advice Column Question: How do I hate Christmas less?  Ya know? Answer: Yep. I know. But I don’t think you hate Christmas. I think you are grieving. I call it the un-nameable Christmas sadness and it shows itself in many forms. One of my highlighted bad memories of Christmas was looking out of our living room window on Christmas morning at …

Rules For Writing An Email (for people under 75)

You begin with a hello. Cheerio. Greetings. I usually say Hey Pal. To the dopes who jump full speed into their request or point of conversation- think of the greeting like foreplay, soften me up a bit before you try to ram it in. Much thanks. Next you might ask a question. This is fine. I like questions. They make …

Advice: Intuition vs Fear (is this guy stalking me or am I just a prude?)

Hi Emelia, I have been “hanging out” with a male coworker (I’m female) for about a year. It started with me just wanted to learn guitar but he made it clear early on that he likes me as more than a friend; I didn’t feel the same and told him so but he didn’t seem to get the hint. Me being confrontation-phobic and not …

ADVICE: How Do I Find Me Again.

QUESTION: I have 2 kids and 1 more on the way. I have an adorable husband. But what I feel I’m lacking is something outside of my family, and I really wish I had something in place before I had kids. I feel as if I’m losing(lost) myself and when I do get the rare break I don’t know how …